Biting is a bit of a strange thing in sex, and it doesn’t really have much of a place in BDSM. Technically it could easily be put under Sadism and Masochism as it is in its why causing and receiving pain as enjoyment. However it really is more of a primal urge. Its not something everyone finds the need to do, and if you happen to be in a situation to be as loud as you like people often find that it isn’t really a necessity at all. On the other hand even if you can be loud, its something which many people do, and enjoy.
For those who like to bite, is it actually not an easy to answer question when you are asked ‘why?’ in my opinion anyway sometimes it’s not. I mean, yes people like to bite, it is in fact an act of passion. When you bite down hard on the arm, shoulder, chest of your partner during sex it is a way to focus your climax, its something which, as I stated previously, is almost primal. You do it simply because you feel the need to and you satisfy that need without a second thought. Thats how it should be, there is nothing wrong with being a biter. It turns some people on, it turns some people off. Sometimes you just have to make sure you’re biting the right thing if its a turn off for your partner.
Best to always have something pillow like around if possible, personally I think if you need to bite down so hard you can draw blood you may need to bite down on something else just in case thats not your partners idea of fun. But it is really kinky to wear the bite marks of your lover, its one of the other reasons people get pleasure out of it. Its a step up from a love bite, and you must admit if your the kind of person to show those off that showing off your partners teeth marks is a lot kinkier.
But if you do get the urge to bite down on something make sure that firstly your partner doesn’t mind and secondly that you’re doing it in the right place. Teeth are not so good to the penis, thats really a no go area and thats just common sense. You should never hold back if everyone agrees though, and its a nice kinky thing to do. So go on, bite. And let us know all about it!
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